Worthless bum!

Chris de Vidal January 3rd, 2009

Homeless man

“Could you spare 35 cents for a sandwich?” A worthless bum, standing amongst the city’s downtown club scene, asked us for money. We knew where the money would go — probably for cocaine. Worthless bum.

– wait a minute –

I’m no better!

How many times have I asked for grace from God only to use it on my own personal cocaine — the lusts of my flesh. And yet God mercifully pours out grace after grace day after day. He LOVES to because He’s looking at me through the lens of the blood of His Son. He LOVES to have mercy on me — despite my mixed motives.

Jesus said, “…your will be done…” (Matthew 6:10 ESV). Three times in the garden before going to be slaughtered by God* he said, “…not what I will, but what you will…” (Mark 14:36 ESV)

* Yes, by God. See Isaiah 53:10.

God, purify my motives and my heart. Make my motives the same as yours. Cause my heart to beat with yours.

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For the Music Critic…

Jeff Fuller December 15th, 2008

I really enjoy lists… they make it easy for my simple mind to digest the many diffferent aspects of a single topic. Bob Kauflin recently shared ten reasons we should be humble when criticizing music. I believe in a broad sense, these ten reasons apply to many other areas of our life: politics, movies, websites, and (oh gasp!) the intricacies of our theological position.

1. Being a self-appointed music critic is often just a sign of pride. Using outrageous or exaggerated words to put down certain songs, styles, or artists can be a symptom of selfishness, laziness, or arrogance. We don’t want to spend time investigating whether or not our assessment is accurate because we’re too busy sharing our opinions. (Prov. 18:2)

2. Music doesn’t define us. Why do we become offended when someone critiques our favorite song, group, or style of music? Because they’re insulting “our” music, which means they’re insulting us. That’s idolatry. Music isn’t our life — Christ is. (Col. 3:4).

3. Great songs don’t always sound great the first time through. Some songs require repeated listenings to appreciate their value.  Albums and songs often grow on us over time. Is all the best music always instantly accessible or appealing? I hope not.

4. The introduction to a song isn’t the same thing as the song. The first twenty seconds of a song usually doesn’t represent the whole song. It just introduces it. Deciding we don’t like a song from the start can keep us from hearing something we might truly enjoy or benefit from.

5. Listening to music the masses have never heard of doesn’t make us better. Some of us derive a particular joy in finding and listening to obscure, undiscovered artists. As if being unknown was admirable in and of itself. Some bands are undiscovered because they’re not very good. And if we do happen to discover a talented unknown band, it’s an opportunity to serve others, not look down on them.

6. Listening to music that is massively popular doesn’t make us better. This is the opposite craving of the previous point. It’s the mindset that says if the song or artist hasn’t been on the radio, at the top of the charts, or on TV, it’s not worth listening to.

7. Learning to appreciate unfamiliar music is one way to prefer others. Why does everyone have to like the music I like? What might I learn about my friends by patiently seeking to understand why they like the music they do? (Phil. 2:4)

8. Learning to like other kinds of music can open my eyes to God’s creativity. In his book, Music Through the Eyes of Faith, Harold Best addresses musical elitists. “Among all this stuff that needs aesthetic redeeming, there is also goodness, a whole lot of integrity and honesty, from which they themselves can learn.” (p. 89) That means I can actually enjoy music that is less sophisticated than what I’d ordinarily listen to.

9. We may have to eat our words. It’s happened more than a few times. I mouth off about how bad a song is, and later on start to think it’s actually pretty good. Or I tear up a song on my blog and later find myself talking to a person who loves it or the person who wrote it. Oops.

10. We might be missing an opportunity to be grateful for God’s gifts. Our tendency is to assume that God’s gifts all look and sound the same. They don’t. What would happen if the first time we heard a song we sought to be grateful rather than critical?

Listen to Episode 7 Now!

Jeff Fuller January 13th, 2008

Listen to Episode 7 now!

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Episode 7 – “The Evangelist’s Kryptonite”

Jeff Fuller January 13th, 2008

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Listen to Two Reformed Brothers this week as we talk about pride, The Evangelist’s Kryptonite. Call in at (646) 478-0802 and tell us ways you uproot pride in your life. Broadcasting live on the internet Sunday evening at 8pm PST (11pm for us east coast folks).

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Reformation aFresh

Jeff Fuller October 28th, 2007

Reformation aFresh - Sharing the light of he Gospel afresh

Reformation aFreshOur new Message Board is now online and accepting registrations. We have partnered with other reformed blogs/ministries to share in Christian fellowship. With the same humility and graciousness you’ve come to expect from our past forum, you’ll now have the opportunity to meet new guests and discover new topics in our redesigned site. If you are a Reformed or Calvinistic Christian, we would be delighted to have you register at this new site! Visit Reformation aFresh, where we are now sharing the light of the Gospel afresh!

In the Sidebar: The Reformed Evange-Link

Jeff Fuller July 6th, 2007

Since my family has no cable or satellite television service, we enjoy renting DVD’s. It’s always a treat after the movie to browse the bonus features which often include a “behind the scenes” look at the making of the film. My absolute favorite bonus feature is when a disc has a gag reel or bloopers clip!

The Reformed EvangelinkThink of the second link in our sidebar, The Reformed Evange-Link, as the “special features” of our blog! It’s part behind-the-scenes and part gag reel. The “Link” is a user forum/message board where around 50 people talk more in-depth about reformed theology and evangelism. It’s not all diving the depths of theology, we also have quite a bit of surface level joking around and overall fun.

The “Link” is for Christians who are essentially reformed, although many denominations are represented. Absent are the debates over whether or not the Doctrines of Grace are true… after all you already know what we think, we’re a reformed blog! But even though we don’t agree on everything, humility and graciousness abound. No shoes, no shirt, no problem. No spiritual fruit, however, big problem! (Galatians 5:22-26)

We don’t do membership drives and our humble little forum isn’t for everyone. But you are welcome to click the link and read the Reasons and Rules. If our glove fits your hand, feel free to register a username (check the rules section for how to choose a username).

Happy Dependence Day!

Jeff Fuller July 5th, 2007

While yesterday most Americans celebrated their independence… Today may we pause for a moment and reflect on our dependence to God.

C.J. Mahaney defines an attitude of self sufficiency in relation to God and self righteousness in relation to others as Pride. He says,

“My favorite definition and description of pride is from the pen of the Puritan Charles Bridges: Pride lifts up the heart against God. It contends for the supremacy with him. How unseemly moreover is this sin. A creature so utterly dependent, so fearfully guilty, yet proud in heart.”

I have been reading through a book on Biblical Theology. Today’s portion was interestingly on target:

Man a Creature Who is Ruled

Modern man thinks of himself as being in charge. He sets his own pace, makes his own rules and thanks no one but himself for progress and life’s benefits. The biblical doctrine of creation challenges all of this. Everything we are and have is God’s gift. The uniqueness of the human race lies not in our having developed more or survived better, but in being created in God’s image. The human race is the creature of God and this fact cannot be changed by denying or ignoring it. As creatures of God we are totally dependent upon him for everything. We are dependent not only on the continual rule or providence of God in nature for the production of food and other goods, but also for every moment of our existence. We draw the next breath, our hearts beat the next beat, we are conscious of the next moment of our existence only because God goes on sustaining the very substance of creation. There are no laws of nature that are self-sustaining. If God were to withdraw for a split second his powerful word, the universe would cease to exist in that same split second. That is why man does not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God (Deut. 8:3; see also Psalm 104:24-20). So Christ, as the creative Word of God, sustains “all things by his powerful word” (Heb. 1:3), and “in him all things hold together” (Col. 1:17). (Graeme Goldsworthy, According to Plan, pgs. 96-97)

So how do we celebrate dependency? Through cultivating humility.

Pastor C.J. Mahaney gives a helpful list of suggestions “How to Weaken Pride and Cultivate Humility” in his short but very important book Humility: True Greatness. Pick the book up for expanded explanation of these points. His list is as follows:

Always:

  • Reflect on the wonder of the cross of Christ.

As each day begins:

  • Begin your day by acknowledging your dependence upon God and your need for God.
  • Begin your day expressing gratefulness to God.
  • Practice the spiritual disciplines—prayer, study of God’s Word, worship. Do this consistently each day and at the day’s outset, if possible.
  • Seize your commute time memorize and meditate on Scripture.
  • Cast your cares upon Him, for He cares for you.

As each day ends:

  • At the end of the day, transfer the glory to God.
  • Before going to sleep, receive this gift of sleep from God and acknowledge His purpose for sleep.

For special focus:

  • Study the attributes of God.
  • Study the doctrines of grace.
  • Study the doctrine of sin.
  • Play golf as much as possible.
  • Laugh often, and laugh often at yourself.

Throughout your days and weeks:

  • Identify evidences of grace in others.
  • Encourage and serve others each and every day.
  • Invite and pursue correction.
  • Respond humbly to trials.

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